Umuntu wa kabiri uherutse kumbaza akazina (Potential Suitor 2) was a brilliant young man that was 1 year younger. Very much out of my box since I usually like them a tad bit older. However, since the uncles wildin’… Anyway, we met in a work context. I was impressed by his drive and intellect. He shared how he managed to put himself through school from his home country in West Africa to completion of Masters abroad. He had a very gentle sweet soul and exuded pure kidness. But we just… how can I put it… our magnets did not magnet.
Additionally, I was reminded of how in ancient Greece and Rome, an omen was a predictor of future events. That evening, we happen to spot Afrobeat Artist Davido, infamous for poor genitalia-management, at the restaurant we went to & I took it as my omen.
It begs the question, did I go from having too few standards to too many? I think not. The essence of it all for me now is, if their company does not surpass my own, then I am afraid, the enterprise of marriage no longer appeals.
Pros: Drive, Career, Ambition. Cons: No spark. Frugality. Davido’s face.
Compatibility Failed. My utmost respects remain.
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