I called Prof around 6am when I woke up. This man was out of breath, picked up to tell me he was jogging. This is the type of dedicated lovers we’re dealing with in 2024 and beyond. One shady behavior and we’re out.
Ladies: (1) Say no to men-child who seek a mother in you. A mother to constantly teach them things, help them get their lives together that somehow never get together…. Because if their mother could not, why do you suppose you can? (2) At the same time, say no to patriarchal beasts who say “I am the man of the house” three times a day and insist you must observe 1920 confusing values that they themselves don’t observe because why are you in Buckhead in a Benz sir? First move to your father’s village and tend to his land, then I will meet you there (or not). (3) Say no to project-men. Men who are 10 steps behind you and require such labor. You, dear sister, has unwillingly developed muscles attempting to bring them to equilibrium. And now, that you have cleaned them up a bit, they resent you.
These new age leader-men are kinda cool. They come factory-finished. They don’t need a class in monogamy. They respect women and view them as an equal partners. They are comfortable in their masculinity. Cherry on top? They cook for you & don’t require you to.
Tugwa ahashahe gusa! Hahanda, dukata.
LawyerLiv & Co. 
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