As the year 2024 nears its end & I prepare a balance sheet of my achievements this year, I note it has been 1.5 years since the dissolution of my marriage. Firstly, God has been faithful. Secondly, I really deserve to pat my own back for I have carried myself with grace. Grace I didn’t know I possessed. (Somebody clap for me)
Despite the difficulties faced, never once did I utter a word of insult or contempt in regard to my ex-spouse. In fact, since discretion is a lost art, so many people asked, and when asked, I forced myself to highlight only his good parts. I kept things as cute as humanly possible. The logic was, they were not there in the intimacy of our bedroom, they shall not be there in the dissolution phase. I hold no case against any human. I hold no case against God. Very demure of me.
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