NEVER BEG

There is a natural tendency that us, soft, genuine, good girls, that have not toyed with men long enough, tend to have: BEG. When an intimate relation with a partner sours, we tend to seek for an explanation, ask and ask again, which by definition veers into begging territory. In contrast, a player-type girl would never, because first of all, she’d have a roster of many men, eliminating them one by one like a game of human chess. We, on the other hand, tend to hold on, often times to our detriment.

I now seek to deliver us: NEVER AGAIN BEG, SIS.

• If a man doesn’t call, he isn’t busy, he isn’t sick; he is uninterested.
• If he asks you to visit his house, it isn’t for a meditation session, he wishes to first and foremost bed you.
• If he insists on offering money overtly & quickly, his interest is (likely) not pure, he rather seeks to buy your affections/body and keep it pushing.
• If a man doesn’t materialize his interest into a betrothal in 2,3,4 years; he (likely) will not.
• Most importantly, if he suddenly quits engaging, do not seek to understand the why and the how, OR make a case on why you are THE ONE for him, quit engaging too! (I know you just meant to highlight how genuine your interest was and get closure, but he receives as you being desperate, optionless, and needy. Seems afterall, men really are from Mars, & women from Venus because WAWU, the jump, the mental gymnastic…)

I am fully aware that applying these things when in love is complex. I have traditionally lost brain cells when in love, so trust I understand! But one is to grow and evolve. I leave you now with the following:

Un rien t’habille, un moins que rien te déshabille

“A nothing dresses you, a less than nothing undresses you” (What do you understand this proverb to mean?)

Love,

Liv