WANNA BE HAPPY?

The burden to YOUR happiness rests not on others but on yourself. Some of you shock me. Constantly blaming others for your problems. As if we walk on water, sh*** we got problems too. Remember when I got catfished in broad daylight? Did I blame y’all? No. I picked up my jaw from the floor, took my L and kept it pushing. Take a page in my book.

Your life isn’t worse off or better off than others. God is fair. Everyone has their battles and their wins. Wanna be happy? Manage what God gave you. Say not “I wish I had more money”; say “how can I stretch the amount I have”. Say not “I wish my partner was more romantic”, say “how can I value the qualities he/she does have.” Say not “I wish my woman would accept my sneaky ways”, say “the time has come for me to choke on my nonsensical words”. (Just playing, don’t choke). There are a number Acts of God that one cannot control but a big chunk of your current reality is a direct result of YOUR choices/decisions/actions or inactions. Until you understand that, you will forever be a victim in your story.

NB: Mystery bae hasn’t asked to see me in 48hrs. WTF. Marry or Release. Time is money baby… (No, he doesn’t read the blog, as far as I know… lol)

Unapologetically Undomesticated,

XOXO