Tit for Tat?

Which is worse: Lovers drama, Friends Drama, or Family Drama?

Lovers drama is child’s play at this point. Our bodies have become accustomed to it. Looks like everyone is going through it in this department… The married feel suffocated. The unmarried feel lonely. The Situationship-ers feel played. It seems, the only people chopping life are players: they stay while it’s steamy and dip when it ghetto-izes. Real talk, but for my Christian identity and the biological risks, I’d have been a full-blown player…

Friends Drama doesn’t faze me much either. I know People will people, so while I love people, I don’t count on them that much. In fact, something happens to me everywhere I go, work, church, etc. Two people will have a disagreement and BOTH sides will confide in me. You can call it two-faced; I call it diplomacy. God gave me a gift: the capacity to understand everyone’s perspective. So, I just be vibing and mediating…

BUT I do find Family drama to be the trickiest! Ever noticed how we tend to be more considerate with strangers while being savage brutes with our own families. I think it comes down to this: when you have seen somebody have diarrhea and ugly cry, you tend to operate in a “sit down, be humble” mode towards them at all times. Zero censor. Zero boundary and when not careful, we could end up hurting the people we love the most. And before you say, “Bingo! I am a victim of this”, assess yourself first! May God receive our prayers. – Kamata Bisous!