Author: LawyerLiv

  • OBSESSION

    It is a true I am obsessed with Africa, this I don’t deny. My ex-husband had an Andikra symbol tattooed on his arm along with a Ghana flag, took me three seconds to fall in love. (He was “the one” for that precise moment in time. Fun was had. I wish him well.) Later the…

  • ISLAM – NEW TREND?

     الله أكبر It seems to me that Islam is becoming a bit of a trend. Suddenly seeing lots of new converts and lots of Mecca visits on my socials. And I kinda sorta like it… My problem with the West has always been: Morality is dead. Humanity is dead. God is dead. In the West,…

  • KWICURA

    The Following Are My 6AM Unprovoked Thoughts:

  • GIVE THANKS?

    Today is Thanksgiving day. The Facts Are These: God Loves You. I Love You. It is a Blessing to be Alive. Not a Good Day to be a Turkey. Not a good day to be Native-American. Some of you reconnected with estranged families, it was awkward but you survived, bravo for the effort! Some of…

  • HEROINE, VIVINE

    Words Fail Me – Rare Occurence.Mother got HIV. Father no longer with us.Too Young. Too Much. Burden Too Wide for My Thin Built.I know there is a God in Heaven.Gusa menya itagitaha i Rwanda.Quick, Mother is Awake.*Wipes Tears*. *A Smile.*Mwaramutse Mama? Karibu Ku Meza. HIV Rates are the Highest in Africa due to poverty, violence…

  • TAXES

    Since I got promoted, I mistakenly thought “I’d arrived” and started making plans to purchase my dream car (of the moment.) That is a chocolate convertible benz with license plate “LawyerLiv” or “Nyanza”…That was until I saw my first pay. A literal 1/4th has been taken out for taxes. Reached out to HR to see…

  • WHAT IS IT?

    Lest you accuse me of only talking about love, let the record reflect, I’ve addressed other topics in my two most recent editions. But now, what do you want me to discuss, constellations and orbits? I beg, spare me. What I really want to know is, where does the discomfort many of you have around…

  • RIDE OR DIE? THE “FUDGE”?

    Early this year, I received a message from a woman in Rwanda saying one of those almost-family member of mine had impregnanted her and refused to take accountability. (Key word: Almost Fam. There are no cowards in my blood line.) After investigating that her story was in fact true, I tried to reason with the…

  • DATING STANDARDS

    It’s true I didn’t have standards before, this I don’t deny. This was due to a naiveté problem not a self-esteem problem. I thought all humans worthy of my love, I didn’t know I’d encounter brutes. I have 99 problems but self-esteem issue is a problem I don’t have. If anything I have inherited from…

  • BDAY GLOW

    Before, when I was a village girl, I’d exhaust my suprahyoid muscle (throat) debating matters of society, now I chuckle at archaic thinking in a Mars-Era. Before, when I was a village girl, I’d pick up unknown numbers. Now, the level of womanhood I’ve unlocked, does not permit me to do such. Callers can utilize…