Tag: life
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NAVIGATING LOVE & LUST
Most African men see divorce as a quick mishap in their journey, they take 1 day to mourn and the next day, you will meet them in town holding hands with a hot new thing. I admire their lack of shame. In contrast, African women, (to no fault of their own, based on societal stigma),…
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Ode to My Father- (OTF)
As you may recall, I am working on my first book “OTF” – Please enjoy the following excerpt: Dad has always been a fascinating character, so weekends were very movemented in our household. On Saturdays, he would “sleep in”, which for him meant waking up at 9a sharp, such a waste of sheets. He’d wake…
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GIRLFRIENDS
I know, I know! I said no more blogs as I focus on finishing my book… BUT AH… Couldn’t resist, had this on my mind. So… I hate to put women in hierarchy, I have always considered us all to be sisters. However, I am saddened to note, there is in fact a class system.…
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KWIKEKA
An almost-funny thing just happened. I went to a coffee shop to finish some work. There was one empty couch left. I went to sit there and an older white gentleman sitting nearby, (with what I perceived to be disregard), said to me “someone is coming.” Barely any eye contact, no “excuse me”, no “I’m…
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FRIENDSHIPS
I appear super social because too many words come out of my mouth all at once; but really, I’m a bit of a home buddy. I’ll take Nollywood/Marodi TV & chill over going out 7 times out of 10. Still, I love supporting my family & friends at their events and occasionally, I’ll do a…
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SOCIAL MEDIA COMPARISON
I can imagine humans did not have this problem in the stone age. The population was way smaller and there was no social media, they were instead busy discovering fire. Now there are 8 billion of y’all and y’all are real cute. It is quite natural to fall victim to the comparison game. Though, BE…
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LOVE DIARIES : Ep 1
Welcome to the highly requested… LOVE DIARIES. Burna Boy tried to warn us in “Last Last” but we laughed and took it for play-play. The bottom line is this: Live long enough and you will dump AND be dumped. Now that God has re-adjusted my path, and my family has spent 1 year band-aid’ing the…
LawyerLiv & Co. 