Tag: relationships
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SAFE SEX
Sensible souls, forgive me as I frustrate your spirit. Sex is a MEGA taboo in Rwandan culture. It isn’t something you talk about. It is something you figure out as you go. How terribly dangerous… In 1 week I will be 33. I have never been on birth control. I am ultra weary of pharmaceuticals.…
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Exposing a Videographer Friend Who Sucks!
Im not in the business of covering & hiding. I very much believe in exposing people’s shameless behavior. Check this out. I am on a Board of a Non Profit that serves domestic violence survivors. We wanted to create a promo ad to generate more engagement. I recommended a videographer guy I know, spoke so…
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(Un)Holy Matrimony
They will say “here goes Olivia, complaining about Marriage again…” I beg, I beg, I am innocent of all they accuse me… I write about what I observe in society, the moment the institution becomes equitable, le chapitre seras clos,(the chapter will cease). What I have observed is this: if you like, as a woman,…
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Meet Tidjane Thiam
It is as if our regions are allergic to brilliant men & women… Check this out: Ivory Coast’s presidential elections are set for next month & we are unfortunately foreseing chaos. I have confirmed we will not observe these elections. Generally, when we observe we are to maintain neutrality. Remember when I observed US elections…
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Rwandan Style Orgy
Just came from Starbucks, left a tip but barrista didn’t notice. Kinda want my $2 back. I must be a fake humanitarian because I always want credit… Also, le nouveau son de Tayc et Charlotte est doux deh! “Dis moi qui t’a blessée, je ne peux pas laisser oh!” La La La… “Girlllll – what…
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La vie Kinoise
If you are a young African woman working in Africa, and God has elevated you so that you find yourself with certain decisionmakers, good luck being respected. This is not even sexism. It’s beyond. It’s infantilization. Which is wild because how am I a child and you’re flirting? I hate to confirm the clichés but,…
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Naira’s Depreciation & Kevin Gates’ 60 day Marriage
The Naira has not only depreciated it has entirely collapsed. I knew it was bad when I found out Rwandan Franc (I think for the first time) is now stronger than the Naira… In 2 years, food prices have increased by 80% and fuel has quadrupled. How are my Naija people even surviving. The fudge?…
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Love & War
Just the other night, I was in the middle of having a toddler meltdown, which I am ofc not proud of. Still, I don’t only share moments that make me look good. With the rise of perfectly-curated-social media images of self; I made the commitment long ago to share my life in its most raw…
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GIRLFRIENDS
I know, I know! I said no more blogs as I focus on finishing my book… BUT AH… Couldn’t resist, had this on my mind. So… I hate to put women in hierarchy, I have always considered us all to be sisters. However, I am saddened to note, there is in fact a class system.…
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LOVE DIARIES : Ep 1
Welcome to the highly requested… LOVE DIARIES. Burna Boy tried to warn us in “Last Last” but we laughed and took it for play-play. The bottom line is this: Live long enough and you will dump AND be dumped. Now that God has re-adjusted my path, and my family has spent 1 year band-aid’ing the…