Tag: sex

  • In Kigali, “we share”: African Swinging

    Swingers. Open Marriage. Libertinage…Africans love to look down on these modern sexual movements but that’s a tad bit more sophisticated than what y’all be doing…. MIC DROP. In too many African contexts: A is married to B but sleeps with her gym instructor C on the low. B too has a side lover, sister D…

  • In Re Chivido “Stone me Not”

    I wish to preface my message by saying Impundu Impundu! (Exclamations of well wishes for newly wedded couple.) It is not about them per se. They have simply ushered us into a larger conversation that is: “African men misbehave because African women do not hold them accountable”. I do realize I am a badly-positioned vessel…